Life. It comes at you fast. Faster than five boys – wait, I mean three boys – running through a mud puddle. Faster than I can get them all cleaned up and into the car for the next adventure. Faster than I ever thought my own heart could be shattered into a million impossible, unfixable…
Why I Didn’t Shut Down The Chaos Planner Today
When I logged into the back end of The Chaos Planner this evening, it wasn’t to write a new post. It wasn’t to schedule the next article, or answer DMs, or update the bio links. It was to shut it all down. To hit the button that says, “Deactivate Blog.” To wipe the slate clean….
The Love, Forgiveness, Trust Equation
Ok, it’s been a hot minute since I’ve posted. And for the loyal readers, you know why. When life hits, it hits hard! But here I am, resurfacing again because life is also an amazing journey with joy and struggles, and it wouldn’t be real if we just pretended the struggles didn’t happen… In the…
Beyond the Breakup: Learning to Love Myself Again
Life as a mom to five rambunctious boys, ages three to eleven, was always a beautiful, chaotic whirlwind. My days were a blur of superhero capes, scraped knees, and endless laughter. And Papi, was right there with me, a 100% involved partner in our adventure-seeking, rough-and-tumble crew. We were a unit, a vibrant, constantly moving…
Leading With Love Means Loving Myself
Oh, hello there. It’s been a minute, hasn’t it? If you’re a regular around here at The Chaos Planner, you know my life has always been, well, a chaos planner’s dream. Well, that’s what I used to write about. In my last post I filled you in on the tea… the dream became a nightmare….



